Semi-cheating my way out of a strike...

I know I'm on strike. Stop looking at me funny. I just need to stick a single toe over the picket line to share what I thought was a FANTASTIC article about assessing the health of your relationship (past or present). The author, Susan J. Elliot, offers 10 evaluation factors that hit the damn nail on the head.

If you're pining over an ex, use the checklist to see if you're deluding yourself about wanting them back. If you are already in a relationship, use the checklist to see if you need to run screaming into the night.

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THE CHECKLIST:
Recheck: Was Your Relationship Good for You?

SOURCE:
Getting Past Your Past (Blog)

AUTHOR:
Susan J. Elliot,
Lawyer, Counselor, and Author of Getting Past Your Breakup.

Have you noticed something friggin MISSING around here???

Me too. I'm talking about His Side and his view of the world (from the Mountaintop of Wisdom that exists only in his head).

See? Did you see that? I just threw some snark out there... and it was like a tree falling in the woods with nobody there to hear it. No reaction from His Side, 'cause he's over on the sidelines drinking a cup of Gato.rade with a thumb stuck up his ass.

In other words, I am officially on strike until His Side says something... anything... on this blog.

While you're waiting, how about taking some time to read this blog post, plus the interesting (and sometimes heated) conversation that followed in the comments:

Blog: The Breakup Diaries
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